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Too much others too little me. Sometimes we give so much to others and we give so little to us that we forget us. It's not about being selfish. That's not what I'm talking about. But there are people out there that are givers. Givers of money, givers of time, givers of energy, givers of love, givers of help, givers of life. And to whom? To others. Not to themselves, to others. They are selfless individuals usually but also they can be selfish as in their goal may be selfish but in the end they are givers. They end up giving and people end up taking from them a lot. Taking a lot taking more than they were offered originally taking more than they should. And this kind of giver personality they end up suffering. They end up lonely. They end up alone. They end up poor, destitute. I'm not advocating to becoming selfish. That's not good. But don't forget you. Sometimes you got to give a little more to you and a little less to others so that you too can survive and be happy. And it's tough. That's true. for a person that is a giver. Well, I don't want to call myself a giver, but I'm I think I am because I have suffered a lot in life. By being a giver, by being forgive forgiveful, by being generous, for example, sometimes by being loving, too loving. Sometimes you even love the wrong person. And the person maybe knows it and they use you. They abuse you. They use you and they take your money, your life, your energy, your everything, your soul even. You got to be careful. You got to be really careful to not give too much and not lose yourself in this giving. You have to always protect you. And it's tough because for example, if you're single and searching for love for somebody, for your other half, you have to give. You cannot be selfish. It's just not possible. You have to open up. You have to give heart. You have to give some soul. You have to give energy, time, even money sometimes. And that's a road that is very difficult to walk. I'm blessed to find someone that finally was good for me. But this road was very hard, very difficult, many years. And I almost didn't make it. I almost didn't survive it. I gave too much. Too much of me, too much of my life. So, this is a warning to you all who are givers. Givers of time, givers of anything. Continue to give. But don't forget you. Don't give so much to others that there is nothing left for you because then you can't save anybody. You will be drowning yourself alone. And who's going to save you? No one. People don't care. They genuinely don't care. They just want to take. Most people. And this is something only a giver understands, not a taker. There are some who are takers. They are they just they're made to take things. And they can be extremely entitled to things that hey, I deserve this. You must give me love. You must give me money. You must give me this. You must give me that. And when they end up with a giver, they take or they take they take a lot. They can take everything without a sense of gratefulness, without a sense of guilt, humbleness, nothing. They will take they will take your life. They won't care. And sometimes, sadly, in the end, when you have nothing more to give, they will move on to the next. They have to find the next giver because this giver is finished or this giver is dead. Be very careful. Be very very careful in life in general. This is not just about searching for love. No, this is about any situation in life. Even at work, co-workers, some co-workers are takers. They take from you. They could you fix this? Can you do that? Well, it's not even your job. And we or the givers. I don't want to call myself a giver. Like I'm not some kind of superhero, some good person. I'm not. I'm a sinner. Don't mistake me for some kind of, oh, I'm the best. I'm brightest. I'm not. I'm so not. Um, but as a giver, I understand situation of the givers. So, and you you want to help your coworker and you give. Sure, I'll fix it. No problem. Then the guy or the woman comes and again takes from you and again and again and there can be many takers in a work space your workplace and that then you have a problem. They will take so much then now you have to work extra at home or at night just to catch up your own work and this is not a situation you want to end up in. And sadly a lot of givers or most givers even I would argue they end up in this situation. It's very sad and it's very unfair. But the world isn't fair is it? The world will crush you as a giver and it's difficult to survive a world as a giver. But don't become a taker either. Don't give up. Continue be a giver. Just don't forget you. It's okay to be a giver. It's good. Give people what they need. Love, attention, energy, time, guidance, things like that. Even money. Sometimes someone really actually is in need of money. Just a little money just that will save them. It's okay. Be a giver. But don't give so much that you too will become in a situation where you're drowning now or you're in a deep deep hole and you can't get out because then you might not find a giver to help you out of this hole and you will just die in it in misery and loneliness and it's sad. It's very sad. And givers usually end up being hurt in relationships, in friendships, in all kinds of situations. They will get hurt because most people are takers. Most people are not givers. Givers are rare. And if you have a friend who is a giver, cherish this person. They are special. They are rare. They are not found easily especially you can't befriend them so easily. They will hang out with you because they're giver. They will help you. They will help you. But as a real friend, if you actually find a real friend that is a giver, that's a valuable friend. Cherish this person. On a side note, I think it would it should call it should it should be called cherish, not cherish because when I say cherish, it reminds me of cherry. I do like cherry ice cream. Cherry ice cream. Yeah, that's nice. That's pretty nice. So, don't lose yourself into giving so much that you you finish. You yourself finish because a giver when they don't when they run out of items and money then they start giving from themselves because it's how they are built. They are giver inherently givers. So they are going to give you words, life, energy, soul even they will die for you sometimes and that's don't use them, cherish them, value them as a friend especially. And certainly a giver also needs help but they don't scream it on top of the roof that I need help. They're a giver. They can't ask for help. It's difficult for them to ask for help. Usually they just cry in a corner. They suffer alone because they're givers. They can't take. Even asking for help is a kind of taking and it's difficult for a giver to ask that please help me. That's a extremely difficult question uh to give to somebody when you are a giver and say could you please help me a giver have difficult has difficulty with this again um I don't have a script when I talk so I know this it sounds weird and I do errors with English and my words and I repeat English is indeed my first language But I am an alien. I'm I'm not from here at all. And I do know many other human languages, but I I chose English because it's it seems the popular choice right now. Maybe I need to switch to Chinese in a few years. Who knows? Either way, we we don't talk where I come from. Extremely rare that we talk. So, my voice is actually extremely difficult to get picked up by a microphone as well. I had to buy an some kind of special microphone just to let it pick it up. When I talk on the phone, the microphone doesn't pick up my voice. It's like a ghost talking, which is kind of creepy and strange, but that's how it is. But that's enough about me for now. So, to you all givers, I pray that you are blessed and protected. Please don't forget you don't give so much that you end up not having even yourself. Thank you and goodbye.